Laurie and I told the kids tonight about our divorce. She went to Kimberly's home, I stayed home and talked to Kristen. I'm not yet sure how it went yet with Kimberly, I can only hope for the best. Kristen was crushed at first, and I couldn't keep any more secrets from her so I came out to her. She is so very supportive. Sad still but fully understands now. Her she and her girl-friend are together now, and will be spending the night together. Something laurie and I expected and are comfortable with.
Like I had said, I'm not sure how Kimberly took it nor if Laurie ended up telling her the whole story. It's true she and I are not compatible any more, do not love each other as lovers, but I have always told Laurie that if she ever felt she needed to explain it to anyone that she was free to share my sexuality with them.
I'm sad, and I'm happy. Kristen is amazing. She accepts me for who I am, as I had hoped. I can only pray that Laurie is not having too rough a time of it with Kimberly.
My heart is still heavy. A milestone moment.
UPDATE:::
As I expected, Laurie told Kimberly about my sexuality. And unfortunately, as expected, she does not accept it. She says she loves me, but that being Gay is a choice. That if we were active in church I wouldn't be this way. Nice. It's going to be a long long road.
Wednesday, November 30, 2005
tears, laughter, oh how my heart cries
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